and it was a bit of a surprise, he just wouldn't latch on when it came for bedtime and since then he hasn't nursed. he was only nursing for sleeps and when he woke through the night so not a lot but my question is, i can feel i have milk in my boobs, they hurt a bit and aren't engorged but how long will they be like this? i have tried sudafed but that just gave me a headache and didn't seem to have an effect on my boobs. i do have a pump to use but i'm worried about stimulating my supply which i obviously don't want to do. also if i do nothing will that matter? am i leaving myself open to problems like mastitis or something?