Re: 3 month old with juice...no way! help!
my understanding is that as long as they are not straining for like 30 minutes to poop, they are fine. Both of my kids did have to do the juice thing, but not because of the frequency (they would go about 1 week with no poop), but just because they would strain and strain and get nothing. I wouldn't worry about it. I agree with pp...if I felt like I was being lied to about my child, I would find a different situation. You want to be able to brush things off and be flexible, but you need to trust that things that are important to you are being respected. Good luck!
p.s. when I hear the "when I was pregnant" argument, I always remind people that they also used to think drinking and smoking was ok when they were pregnant!
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