Re: Need Advice!!
You sound really frustrated and I'm so sorry you are having a rough time. I don't have much advice to give, since I haven't weaned my 15 mo old. I have seen other posts that suggest the best way to wean your child is to "don't offer, don't refuse." I think it is based on the idea that if you refuse the breast when the child requests it, it can cause them to be more clingy and insistant, but if you go slowly they have more time to get used to the idea of (for example) cuddling instead of nursing.
I'm not sure how you would overcome that if you want to wean more rapidly, though, as I believe this approach takes more time. I started doing it a couple of months ago and, while she is still nursing (which is fine with me) my daughter does nurse less frequently when I don't offer it at her 'typical' nursing times (ie. bedtime, naptime, when she's upset).
I wish I had some more advice for you, but I hope that helps.
“We are not put on earth for ourselves, but are placed here for each other. If you are there always for others, then in time of need, someone will be there for you.”