i am sooo sad! i knew when i became pg that i had no interest in tandem nursing. and, i did ask how to go about weaning, but never really got around to starting. it just kinda started to happen on it's own, so i went with the flow and did the don't offer, don't refuse. unless i was putting him to bed or if he awoke at night. well, he is now pretty much weaned. of his own accord. when he wants it, it is to play with or poke at, or he just touches his lips to my breast and pops off and giggles. i still have milk, so i know it's not that. like i said, i wanted to be done for when dd gets here. but, i guess i didn't expect it to hurt so much. especially since i not only hit my original goal, but surpassed it. i am just so sad!