My little Benny just turned one and I am still happily nursing him, but I am about to face a lot of criticism from my husband's family and from some people in my family as well because most of them assume that I will wean Benny after one. I haven't told anyone my plans to wean my son when he is ready, and I know that a lot of people are going to start to ask me. My mother in law expects me to wean soon because in the past she has commented that people that nurse babies beyond one are "just crazy". I seriously want to tell her to mind her own business but unfortunately we depend on her because she has a day care and takes care of Benny while I go to school. I want to keep harmony in the family without being too passive. I read the criticism article and got some great ideas for responses, but has anyone had the same experience? What do you do in those cases?