how do I start weaning? my 9.5 month old dd nurses 7ish times a day. eats solids 2-3 times a day (and nursed after she eats solids). I want to wean by 1 year. so where to start? also, my husband is an account and tax time is unfortunately on it's way it is an extremely difficult time for me and my 3 year old. dd will be 1 year mid march, tax time is over really at the end of april. should I wait until after tax time when I'm stressed to the MAX or start aggressively now? thanks for you help!