Well, I've been tandem nursing my soon to be 3 year old (40 lbs.)and my infant, and hating it. It wasn't bad at first as my toddler was only nursing before bed for 5 minutes or so. About 3 weeks ago, he started asking all the time no matter where we were. I actually had to take him into the bathroom at a restaurant last week and nurse him because he was screaming and would not give it up. Recently it's also become painful, whether it's just a really strong suck or teeth, I don't know. So on Sunday the 23rd, I decided that was it, I was done. I have to admit, after the first day, he still asked, but didn't give me a hard time when I reminded him that mama milk is just for baby Linus now. I am a staunch advocate of child-led weaning, and never imagined I would initiate weaning before I felt he was ready. I feel a little guilty, and a little sad about closing that chapter. Luckily I have another nursing baby, otherwise I would be a big sopping mess.