Sorry if this post doesnt belong here.
After several week of discussions between myself, my partner and my HV we came to the discission that DD was ready to start weaning. We are trying like most parents to introduce things one at a time to make sure thereis not reaciton. My problem is my In-laws. I work part time and while i am away from DD my partners father and mother looks after DD. I always pack her food and expresed milk for them to give her so there is no need for them to give her anything else.
I was around at their house the other day and they started to make comment about them giving her potatos and carrots and other veg while i was at work. They never ask if this was ok and never told me when they were going to it. I feel so ill about it. If they said 'would you mind us trying this' then i wouldnt have an issue but they didnt, they are feeding her things and not telling me. I really dont know what to. DD could have a reaction to something and i would never know what has caused it.
I asked them if they would mind letting me know 'if' they give her anything during the day when i come to pick her up but they are still not doing this. My partner tried to talk to his mum about it and she just shrugged and ignored his coments. I'm so angry with them. I'm even considering looking at private care so she isnt with them! I really dont know what to do.