i need to start weaning james once i hit the 6 month mark, i knew i could go until 2. i figured i got that far, 2 would be nothing. what i didn't plan on was becoming pregnant again so soon. i cannot tandem nurse, and, really i don't want to. this is making me so sad, but i need to start now because i am less than 4 months away from dd being born. i have no prob keeping 1 or 2 nursing sessions a day if it makes james more comfortable. please help! any advice is welcome!