Thank you all so much for your responses! I'm feeling so much more positive about this and can definately tell this is where I need to come for support! I'll check out all the links in a bit and get in contact with some local people before baby arrives. I'm actually pretty excited to try this again, but scared - mastitis stinks. I really don't want to go thru it again, but maybe if I'm doing things completely different this time around I can avoid it, or at least not get it as many times!
About the repeat c-sec: I had the choice with ds#2, but was foolish and scared of labor, so I chose a repeat then. Now I regret that soooo much. I asked my dr (whom I trust very much) if there was a chance for a VBAC and he said, "What, do you want your uterus to explode?!" lol We live in Oklahoma, and laws are pretty strict, too - you have to deliver at a "learning" hospital if you want a VBAC. There is only one that is kind of close, and my dr does not deliver there, nor do they have a good record for me to feel confident enough to go. I'm ok with the repeat c-sec, but I am disappointed in myself that 3 years ago I didn't do the research to attempt a VBAC.
Thanks again, everyone for your support and advice - I'll start looking around to see what I should do to prepare for breastfeeding!!!