ok, i have a BIG fear of pacifiers and bottles screwing up our latch and breastfeeding relationship...so much, that i plan to BF a year...without ever offering a bottle...(unrealisitic?) i dont want a pacifier to cause any problems either, but DD seems to nurse and nurse and nurse. she ends up just falling asleep at the end of the feeding and when i put her down, she wakes and is unconsolable, so i nurse her again.she falls asleep again and the routine continues. Especially in the evening, she will do this for a good 4 hours straight. I am sure she isnt hungry, just wants to nurse to sleep, and i have no doubt a paci would solve that problem but im too scared !! is it best just to avoid them altogether and nurse nurse nurse? Dh think im nuts, for having her on there ALL the time..
she is 3 weeks old as of yesterday..any advice would be helpful..