hi there everyone , i am new to this site but find it really great so thank you all in advance ! my daughter will be 2 on friday and i am still nursing her and enjoying it but finding it really difficult to get through the nights. she nursing frequently throughout the night and will only fall asleep by nursing, i feel that she is using nursing as a pacifer. i have tried to night wean but been unsuccessful. if i refuse to nurse she cries herself into such a state that she vomits . I cannot bear to leave her to cry however it means that i am totally tied at night times and never get to do anything with my husband. i usually end up sleeping in her bed with her as i am too exhausted to go back adn forth all night. She is totally attached to me which i love but i am wondering if maybe it is not such a good thing. i have put her to bed every night since she was born and she will not go to bed at all for my husband. we are living overseas so have no family around us and i am the only mom here breastfeeding so when i ask the other moms they tell me to stop nursing. if any of you have any suggestions for me to try to improve my daughter's sleep habits i would really appreciate hearing from you. many thanks !