Re: A bit confused...
I agree with delias mom. I don't think I ate a hot meal for months until I let my lo feed herself. I started with slimy things that were easy for her to get back out with her gag reflex- cantelope, banana, avacado. She caught on pretty quickly.
If you are very concerned about choking you could do a infant first aid class. It's something we should probably all do anyway, but knowing that you know what to do really helps with the paranoia, iykwim.
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