My daughter is 13 months and we were just forced to wean very unexpectedly. All of a sudden this week she started refusing to nurse, arching away and crying every time we tried. After a couple days I realized she had a lot of little sores in her mouth, her dr. says it's a common viral infection and very painful. I think she's over it now but she still won't nurse b/c she associates it with the pain. So I've decided to just let it go. We're trying to get pregnant again and I was thinking we might wean in the next few months. But I thought we would have more time to prepare and get used to the idea. I can't help feeling very sad about it. I miss it.