Hi! My daughter is 23 days old and the only time I've gotten any decent sleep since her birth is when I put her in bed with me and my husband. Otherwise she has been sleeping in a pack n' play right next to our bed. That works ok, but after I feed her and rock her back to sleep, I get 1.5 hours if I'm lucky until she wakes up and wants to do it all over again.
I have been reluctant to put her in bed with us all the time because of concerns for safety issues. We have a bed that is rather high off the floor and our mattress has a "pillow top" so it's kind of squishy.
I am wondering how others co-sleep safely. Is it unwise to put a baby on a mattress that is a bit more soft?