I'm preaching to the choir here, but my dh and my mom and my ped have all jumped on the "it's time to wean" bandwagon. DS is 19mo and allergic to dairy and soy. I never expected to bf past 1 year but I kinda like it and it's obvious he needs the nutrition. His growth is fine but he is wayyyy disinterested in solid food. Will eat oatmeal, pasta, cookies and jarred baby food and not a lot else. I bf at night (we co-sleep alot of the time) and pump during the day (though I don't send it to d/c...I use it for his oatmeal) and, quite frankly, I'm sick of the pumping. Dh thinks if I weaned, the boy would sleep better (he's horrible at it) and my mom thinks if I weaned, the boy would eat more solids (which he won't), and the ped is just amazed at my elimination diet and pumping regimen. But, siggggghhhhh, there is a voice in my head that wonders if any of my family's concerns are true or if they are self-motivated. DH thinks the boy will be too attached to mommy if he doesn't wean soon and tonight my mother used the word 'oedipal.' Can you believe? So what do I do? I'd LOVE to nightwean but can;t get up the nerve to give the Jay Gordon method a shot. I'd love to not nurse to sleep but it works so darn well that I don't want to mess with that either. Will my boy ever grow disinterested in bf on his own????