How can you tell if your breasts are empty? I read alot on here to make sure you are emptiyng your breasts during feedings but I have found nothing that states how you tell if they are empty. My breasts are soft before nursing and after. My LO is gaining like he is supposed to but I think at times in the evening he is not getting enough. I no longer have that engorged feeling like I did in the beginning. Is this normal and if my breasts are always soft how do you tell is they are empty? Help????