Just wanted to say pre-congratulations on the new baby (Nov 6 is a great birthday, IMHO!) and on bfing this time around. I had all kinds of problems with my first and gave up early too. But I am still happily nursing my 2nd at 15 months. You can do it too! All of the books mentioned by pp are great resources, and if you can, get yourself to an LLL meeting. I was nervous going with I was pg with DS because I thought they would not welcome me due to my past failures, but it was really helpful. LLL leaders have the most up-to-date and practical breastfeeding info and really know how to help new moms with all sorts of problems.