My friend is having her 2nd DC tomorrow. She BF her 1st DC for 3 weeks ( I think). She's going to give BFing "a shot", but says if anything goes wrong, she's going to stop. She's basically looking for an excuse NOT to BF. I'm really disappointed in her. I can't help but be judgemental. How can I encourage her to BF without being overbearing, rude or unsupportive of her choices??