Re: How to feed
My mom feeds like your babysitter and I feed more like you. I wouldn't worry too much about it either way, you'll find your own groove, I think. And by the time your lo is getting most of his nutrition from solid food, he'll probably be feeding himself.
I just saw the second post, and I think if you want her to slow down feeding him, you should definitely tell her so.
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