Re: DH feeding LO everything!
We were strict about the waiting in the beginning, but pretty quickly relaxed about it, since we have no history of allergies and lo didn't seem to be having any problems. We were/are careful about certain common allergens- nuts, no egg whites, milk, honey etc. But as far as veggies and fruits it quickly became a free-for-all at dinner time in our house.
But, having said that, if you are uncomfortable with it and would rather be more careful your dh should respect that. Especially since you are probably going to be the one dealing with fussy baby/doctor's visits, etc if she does react poorly to anything.
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