I'm so angry and hurt right now. DH and I have been fighting over solids for the past month. DS is six months old today and we'll be starting him on food next weekend.
I wanted to do baby-led solids, but DH won that fight and now we're going to do baby food purees. Now, we're fighting over WHEN to feed him. I don't want baby food to replace a nursing, so I want to feed him between nursings/bottles or right after he nurses. DH says that I'm stupid because DS will never eat any food that way because he'll be too full to eat food. He says I'm supposed to feed him the food first, then nurse him to "wash it down".
When do *I* get a say in how our son (MY son, too!) is raised? I just feel like my opinions don't even matter anymore. It's like I birthed him, gave him the boob when he was hungry, and now my job's done? Gah!
Are there any sources that I can share with DH about how to go about feeding baby food? (Specifically anything that backs me up.)