When my beautiful daughter was born I had no breast feeding support. We are older and have no friends with babies. Parents are elderly or dead. I was worried about lack of a supply, dd was screaming for hours, and we supplemented. One month into her life, she won't take my breast. I pump an ounce or 2 (10 tries) during the day. I have gone to a lactation consultant (first week of dd's life) who told me to pump and bottle feed sinca dd was not getting anything from me. Now I am discouraged and cry each time my precious baby refuses my breast and cries. I have seen the advice to stay in bed a weekend but I can't due to elder care issues. Is it hopeless?