I am breastfeeding my second child who is one week old. I also nursed my first child for 20 months with no problems. I remember my breasts softening at around 3-4 months with the first child. My problem is that my breasts are already softening with the second child at one week of age. With the first child, my breasts stayed full in between feedings for the first 3-4 months at least. We went to the pediatrician today and my baby has gained 2 ounces in four days. I continue to feel let down and he is wetting and pooping. I just need some reassurance. I am stressing out!!!!