I have an almost 13 month old son who as some of you may already know from my constant posts is very stubborn. Actually come to think of it we have not been able to make him do anything we want up to this date. We couldn't give him a bottle, a pacifier, we could only give him a sippy recently from which he only drinks water. Solids is another story. He has never opened his mouth for us when we tried to feed him. There were fights and very stressful moments while we were trying to feed him so now he probably hates his high chair and protests us by not eating anything. We tried giving him finger foods but he throws everything on to the floor and even if he eats anything the total of what he eats is the size of a pea since he spits out most of what he puts into his mouth. We took him to a feeding clinic and they gave him reflux medication which didn't do any good in terms of his willingness to eat more. The last time we visited they said that he is not eating because he is not hungry enough since he nurses all night. So they suggested I night wean him. Here is my problem: he is already a very bad nurser. he doesn't like to nurse during the day, I can only get him to nurse for a couple of minutes (sometimes seconds) before naps which he dropped to 1 nap a day recently. I am afraid he will wean completely or not get enough milk if I stop BF at night. In that case we will be truly screwed because we will have to feed him EBM with a spoon as we had to do so many times during his nursing strikes. What do I do?