So my twin boys are almost 11 months old. My goal is at least 13-15 months. I am very proud of the fact that we have never once used formula, and my children (as well as I) seem to love nursing.
DH has been my support. Through all the ups and downs of a first time nurser of preemies, and his support with the disaproving looks of others as they got older I couldn't have made it without him.
My question is about fertility and this seemed the appropriate thread for it. Dh REALLYreally wants another babysoon. He has been asking me for about the past 6 months when we can expect to concieve again. I am excited about having another one asap also. The problem come in that I have not had a period yet. The boys nurse about 6-7 times a day. I explained that we would probably have to cut back or wean to expect fertility to return. Now Dh's view has changed and he is saying things like "They don't need to nurse right now---they need to wean anyway."
I feel guilty to both my sons and my husband. My boys need this great nutrition for a while longer. And my husband has been such a saint, I feel guilty for not listening to his wants and wishes.
Any advice ladies? Also, how many nursings a day did you get your periods back? I am sure I can double that for my twins.