*sigh* I thought I told her not to microwave breastmilk, and I thought she said that she puts it in a bowl of warm water. But when I went to pick Emily up today, her husband was there taking care of the kids (she was at a dr. appointment), and she had left instructions for him to microwave the bottle for 40 seconds. Her husband had no idea, and I told him that you should never microwave BM. I know it's not so bad that she's going to be irreparably harmed from the couple of weeks she's been doing it, but I am definitely going to make sure that doesn't happen again.
I just feel so frustrated that she didn't pay attention and doesn't know about this. She has had breastfed infants before--did she microwave all of their milk this whole time? No wonder she gave me back the bottle warmer that I offered her. I guess I'll offer it up again!
unfortunately Emily will only take warmed milk, no room temp for her!