my 3 mo old daughter had a visit with her great grandparents recently and her great grandmother kept commenting on how i should teach her how to take a pacifier so she would be 'happy when other people were holding her.'
at first dd would take a pacifier anytime(i was supplementing the first month but now i am exclusively bf.) she also has a problem taking a bottle.
should i be pushing the pacifier/bottle on her? will she eventually start taking either on her own? she's also fussy unless i'm holding her and she'll even be fussy when her dh is holding her or playing with her for more than an hour.
is that normal? i love that my baby needs me but other people comment on her always needing me!!