Re: Time at breast
Timing feeds isn't only outdated advice but it can be harmful to baby. Feed baby from one side and when he pulls off satisfied you can offer the other. There's really no reason to feed with both sides during a feeding. One is fine. After a few weeks baby can become very efficient at feeding and take no more than a few minutes feeding all together. My son started feeding for maybe five minutes every couple hours when he was a couple months old. Watching wet diapers is the way to go. Sounds like you're doing very well. Congratulations!
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