Absolutely not!!! You don't need to add to your stress and worry about that with your LO! Just because your LO struggles a bit does not mean she will hate you. Think of it this way, when your daughter is older and you say no to her for one reason or another, will she hate you? No! She might be upset and act like she hates you, but she won't hate you! I EP and tried for a long time to get my LO on the breast. I know how frustrating it can be and your LO most likely is frustrated like you and that's why she's crying.
I thought of something as I was reading this thread, have you tried a nipple shield? I don't have any experience with it, but if your daughter is used to bottle nipples maybe using a nipple shield would help you transitions her to the breast.
Keep up the good work! Your doing such a WONDERFUL thing for your LO!