Just saw my SIL and her mother. Together they have BFed 10 children. They think that I am feeding DD too frequently. That I should only be feeding her 5 times in 24 hours and not at all in the middle of the night. DD is 2.5 mos and eats about every 2 hours and goes 6hours once at night. They also think that at 3 mos I should start giving her carrot juice (homemade from juicing organic carrots) because she will need more than breastmilk soon. It won't be enough for her.
I think that DD and I are doing fine. She is gaining weight well. I do not really think that she needs anything besides BM until after 6 mos. Feeding every 2 hours and at night does not bother me. On the other hand it would be more convenient to have a more rigid schedule when I go back to school full-time in November.