Re: What to do
If you know you won't be able to pump as much, and you have other stuff to feed your baby, you can definitely start dropping pumping session(s) a few weeks before, so that you're not engorged during that time.
On the days that yo're together, you can still nurse on demand, or not, as you and her wish.
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