It's rough. I really think most of the time people don't know what they're saying. They think they are being funny or supportive or sympathetic, but they're not. Of course sometimes they're just being rude. I usually try to ignore them. I just hope that by the time my daughter is having babies people in the workforce will have gotten used to mother/employees. The ones that get me the most are the other mothers. You'd think they'd know better...