hi ladies! my question is for those who have co slept and always nursed their babe to sleep. my son and i have always co slept. i nurse him to nap and throughout the night. he appears very tired to me. he seems to have bags under his eyes. i sometimes find myself wondering if some part of me is doing a small diservice to him for always nursing him to sleep. it bothers me that he is unable to fall back asleep himself and that, half the time, he wakes himself up looking for the boob, should i be out of the room. so for you who have co slept and are possibly done with it, if your babies are older and self weaned, some reassurance? will he sleep himself someday? (i know he will, it is just hard to believe right now) what are your experiances? i too am very tired. i have thought of slowly getting him used to a crib but in no way can i taumatize him (or me)so i probably won't do it.