LO loves to suck......but does not comfort nurse much at all. I started giving her a pacifier at about 3 weeks....only occasionally. Otherwise she would want to suck on my finger for hours on end it would seem. I just have a hard time with how I feel about it. I think I'm not just giving it to her to shut her up, but I'm scared that I might. Her latch is still good while nursing, and she doesn't need it to go to sleep at night, just when she gets over fussy occasionally during the day before a nap, or when our routine gets way out of whack. Please tell me I'm not evil....cause the leaders at my meeting didn't make me feel to good about it.