Re: 3 months old refuse breastfeeding
I went through the same thing with dd when I first returned to work. I would use a nipple gaurd (because they are silicon like dd's bottle nipples) to get her to latch on and start the milk flow then, right after let down unlatch, remove the nipple gaurd and relatch while milk still flowed pretty easily. After a few days she seemed to realize that if she would suck she would get milk and we got rid of the gaurd.
Amanda Mom to James (2/25/04) and nursling Alice (8/24/05)