Re: Sexual arousal
The reason for the sexual arousal is hormones. When baby latches on your body releases prolactin to tell your body to make milk. At the same time however, your body is releasing oxytocin (spelling??) which is related to contractions (i.e. why your uterus shrinks back into shape faster when you BF) but it can feel very similar to mini-orgasms. That is believed to be why BF in the states became so unpopular in the 50s. I went through the same thing with my first baby, but after a while the sensations seemed to subside (dr said it was because my uterus had no more reasons to contract, it was back to normal size). With my second I ignored it and again, after about 2 months it subsided. Hope this helps.
Amanda Mom to James (2/25/04) and nursling Alice (8/24/05)