Maggie, I'm glad you found a lactation consultant who had some suggestions for you. How is the SNS working out for you today? Did the LC also have ideas for improving your daughter's latch and healing your damaged nipples?
You sound like you have a fantastic attitude -- ready to ride this out, flexible but committed to making it work as best you can. I hope you will stick around here and share your successes and challenges with the other new mommas! Keep us posted.