Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences, ladies. I told my DH about this thread and shared some of it with him.
We continue to forge ahead and we have stuck with the night nursing (in fact, it is really early morning nursing). I pulled myself together one morning and sincerely asked my DH for his complete trust and support for BFing, that Eva and I couldn't do it without him and we needed him. I just put out that *simple* request with all my heart. He looked at me, and said that he thought he had been and he had done X,Y, and Z. I said, "Honey, I know, and I am so thankful. But I would really appreciate if your attitude and your words could support me and Eva too."
I got through to him and I think we turned a corner. I'm sure this won't be the end of all controversy between us on the topic, but it seems to have helped his attitude.
So, I'm not too worried about the pedi. Whatever.