I have a few questions maybe someone has advice for me.
i know that your not suppose to here a clicking sound when they're latched on, but I do. I try to take her off , but I still hear it. I'm reluctant to take her off because when I hear the clicking noise that's when she is sucking most vigurously and I hear a lot of swallowing so I know she is getting milk.
Also I can not tell if my daugther has emptied a breast or not. They feel lighter but I don't know if they are empty. sometimes she sucks for over 20 minutes on each side and still acts like she wants more. I take her off after a half hour or so and i'll notice milk coming out so I'll feel bad like I cut her off. Some friends told me 10 min first side as long as they want on second side(if I did as long as she wants I think she would be permantly attached to me all day) Others have said 15 min on each side.
Also I have to wake her all morning to eat every three hours, but in the evening and especially between 2 and 6 am she seems to want to eat every hour.
Any sugguestions would be appreciated. I just wish I could be more secure about what I was doing with her