Ok, so I was just "somewhat" offered a job at a considerably higher salary than I was earning when I worked before LO was born. The problem is that I am so used to spending all my time with my daughter. She is only 10 months old and has only knwon me to take care of her. The othe problem is that the job is about 45 mins away, possibly more with traffic. I always thought I would go back to work when she is a year old, which she almost is ! I know you ladies can't amke this decision for me, but it is sooo hard. SOmetimes I feel so overwhelmed with taking car eof my high need little girl that I think having a "regular" job would be easier. However, ialso realize that this new job would be in addition to being mommy. I can financially afford to stay home for a few more months, but I'm ?afraid an opportunuty like this wont come along again anytime soon. In a fantasy world, I would find a PT job closer to home. Thisis FT and kind of far away. Any similar experiences any of you would care to share? I'm also going to post this in another area, so sorry for the double post.