Hi, I'm new here but I've been funding this forum very helpful add hours to deal with my decision. My son currently Co sleeps and usually nurses at least 3 times a night but this week I have been convinced to Night Wean because he will be staying with my mother for the weekend while I attend a conference. I'm totally confused because I have always been pressured by the women in my family to stop nursing. My husband is completely supportive and generally I just brush their negative comments off but my son had never been able to stay with his Grandma the entire night. Sometimes I must travel for work and my husband is unable to be at home with him. He will go to sleep fine with his father and Grandfather but never with my mother. She says it's because he wants milk and he screams out at night. My problem is that I don't think that I am ready to let go of our special time. Is that selfish of me? He will nurse in the afternoons when I pick him up from daycare but I miss his cuddles at night. I find myself not being able to get comfortable as I am anticipating him waking up and crying because I won't give him milk. I feel like I let him down. He becomes so sad, screaming "please Mommy" it's heart wrenching. What do I do? Should I allow him to nurse once my conference is over? Or should I just let it go?