I think I've read just about everything on Kellymom. It's difficult because my husband takes care of him while I work and he thinks he knows it all! GOD BLESS HIM!
Not sure I'd wake the baby... (trying not to be jealous at a baby that sleeps that long!) I could be wrong tho; I haven't gone through this.
Did you manage to check out paced feeding (if your husband is willing to potentially change the way he bottle feeds)?
http://kellymom.com/bf/pumpingmoms/f...ottle-feeding/ - yes it's kellymom so you've probably already read it!
The other thing I thought was I appreciate you work full time but is it possible to 'work' on your breastfeeding on your days off or in the evening before that night time stretch and/or first thing in the morning?
Am just kinda thinking out loud at you in case it helps!