Re: Refluxing a lot, but don't want to feed less..
I think the best thing to do is to not worry about the spit-up. In an otherwise healthy baby, it's a laundry problem, not a health problem. In a baby with reflux, think of it as an indicator- something that says "yes, my baby has reflux!"- instead of a health problem in and of itself.
With a smaller baby, you don't want to restrict feedings in any way, even if that means she sometimes overfills her tummy and then spits up. But you could try pausing the feeding and giving her a good burp, and then putting her back on the breast for more nursing.
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