Why must we do it? lol JK Seriously... I am not planning on doing so soon, but soon enough Hubby has strong feelings against very extended nursing.. my views, I want to go to AT LEAST a year, probably not until two but no less than one kwim? Anyhow, the way hubby is I think he expects okay that's it on Gavin's first birthday he will no longer nurse! lol I am so scared and worried about weaning though! Gavin nurses for nourishment AND comfort, and he still nurses a LOT at night, and is almost 9 mos old! When we all get ready for bed at night, he "panics" until he has the boob! lol I am not looking forward to having to say no baby no more... it's going to break my heart denying him something that has given him so much for so long! I guess I basically just need to let this out, and look for some advice and reassurance... another reason why I won't go too long, is because I'll have NO support from family, all I will have is "GOD why are you still nursing?" Well thanks for reading Mamas.