My lo has always been a fussy nurser, now 3 months, but it's starting to become painful and frustrating. I know I have too strong of a letdown so we lay down side by side to nurse, which seems to help, but she tugs, pulls off, cries and only nurses for 3-5 minutes. She never does this during her night feed and will nurse for over 10 minutes on each side. She is also very gassy. I've pumped the last 2 days to give my nipples a break and she loves the bottle. Never arches her back or kicks and seems to spit up less.I have no desire to 5-6 times and truly enjoy nursing. What to do? Also, we did have thrush the first month could it be back?