Re: weaning and first PP period
I think most women get their periods within a month or two of complete weaning. If you don't get yours back within a couple of months, you may want to try a pregnancy test, since many women conceive without ever having a period.
Average time until return of menses in a nursing mother is around 15.5 months, so it's unsurprising that your period was still MIA at 14 months.
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