I am still BF my 3 year-old daughter. I BF my son until he was 3.5 years old and I initially thought I would do the same with my daughter. The problem, however, is that my son was very easy-going. He would say "OK mommy" if I was sick, if I said my boobs were hurting or any other reason that I didn't want to BF at a particular moment. My daughter is exactly the opposite. She is still nursing all night long and she kicks and screams if I dare to say no to her day or night. I am definitely done, I can't take it anymore but I don't know how to wean her. With my son, I gradually did the weaning, I wouldn't offer and I wouldn't refuse, sometimes I would say wait a little bit etc... and he pretty much self-weaned. This one will nurse forever if I let her. She is kind of an addict, she giggles when she sees the boob!! What do I do"? Should I go with the dramatic tactics (someone suggested putting some tomato paste on my nipple to make it look like blood)? I really don't want to hurt her feelings but this has to stop!!!