Hello all, as my dd has now turned 3 months and 3 days i'm posting here. My baby will be going to daycare twice a week starting in September. I wanted her to start at 6 months but the policy is sept-july only as spots are very limited. I only wanted her to go once per week so that i could spend time with ds alone (as he has no school on weds) but they insisted twice per week so she gets used to them. it is a very good daycare (i am on the board) and my son started at 13 months 2 days a week (now he is 4yrs). I have no family at all in the country we live in and no one to help me out. Hence daycare for a few hours. My problem is that her latch is shallow and not perfect but she is gaining weight, and she eats every 1.5- 2.5hours(really depends) during the day, 1-2 times at night. I don't know how much milk to send and haven't ever given her a bottle yet. A friend recommended the habermann so that she must continue to work for the milk rather than a traditional bottle. Does anyone have any experience using it? I am so nervous sending her. Will i jeopardize our bfing? No one understands my hesitance because they all formula-feed as do almost all babies at daycare.