I had to go to hospital this weekend and they put me on a bunch of narcotics to manage kidney stone pain until I can have surgery to have it removed. They told me I can't nurse anymore with the narcotics. My DS is 15 months and they say I should be glad I made it that far, but I am having a hard time. I wanted to wean when DS was 18 months, and my husband is jumping for joy because he wants better sleep since the baby was still getting up 2 -3 times at night to nurse. He doesn't understand my sadness and the feeling of disappointment that I can't gradually wean like I did with our older child. I don't think it makes sense to try to maintain my supply until the surgery and then wean in 2 months, but it is just hard.